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100 miles from the nearest shelter. The story of domestic violence in rural Iowa
Kat Russell
Feb. 24, 2019 3:00 pm, Updated: Aug. 18, 2021 9:43 am
For Jones County Sheriff's Deputy Jason Feldmann, responding to a domestic disturbance often brings back memories of chaos and violence.
Growing up in Delaware County, Feldmann said he was primarily raised by his father, but spent roughly every other week with his mother and her abusive boyfriend.
'When I was young, my mom got beat up by her boyfriend all the time,' he said. 'It went on for years and happened pretty much every time I was there. (The boyfriend) was never arrested or anything for the abuse, and if there were services out there, my mom didn't take them.'
Today, a sheriff's deputy of more than six years, Feldmann said when he responds to the scene of a domestic violence incident, he can offer the victim understanding that others might not.
'I tell them about my experience — tell them about my mom — to make them feel more comfortable,' he said. 'Does it help them any? I'm not sure, but when they say to me, 'You don't understand,' well, I kind of do. I might not be a victim or the perp, but I've watched it happen.'
On average, nearly 20 people per minute are physically abused by an intimate partner in the United States, according to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence. That equates to 10 million women and men being abused in one year.
In Iowa, data from the Department of Public Safety shows 6,431 cases of domestic violence were reported in 2016 — the most recent year data is available — and of those, about 78 percent were from women and roughly 22 percent from men.
In many cases, domestic violence victims need help to either stay safe in their situations or separate themselves from their abusers — help that is often available in Iowa's metropolitan areas, but not as easily accessed in the state's rural counties.
In a 2011 study examining the distribution of resources among urban and rural areas, Corrine Peek-Asa, associate dean of research at the University of Iowa College of Public Health, concluded that rural victims of intimate partner violence had significantly less access to help and support. Such services would include access to physical and mental health services, advocacy programs and access to emergency shelters or housing assistance programs, as well as programs that offer financial or child care assistance.
'Access to health, prevention and protection services in the United States is disparate based on population density: rural women have less access than urban women to domestic violence shelters, physical and mental health professionals, law enforcement and judicial personnel,' Peek-Asa wrote.
'Rural women are also nearly twice as likely to be turned away from services because of the insufficient number of programs and inadequate staffing of community-based health programs; they also face barriers to accessing services because of geographic distance and isolation.'
The study surveyed 1,478 women who lived in either urban or rural communities in Iowa and found that 'women in urban and large rural towns reported the lowest prevalence of intimate partner violence, whereas women in small rural towns and isolated rural areas reported the highest prevalence,' with women living in isolated areas reporting 'a higher frequency and much higher severity of abuse.'
In another study published in 2012, author Britt E. Rhodes, an associate professor of social work at Luther College in Decorah, looked at the practices used to address domestic violence and noted that victims who live in rural areas face several significant barriers when it comes to accessing supportive services.
'Over the last 15 years, three common themes have endured and represent ongoing barriers for domestic violence survivors in rural areas in the United States: (1.) rural isolation (including physical and geographic isolation), (2.) service limitations and (3.) collective attitudes and belief systems in rural areas,' Rhodes wrote.
The assistant professor referred to a study in which more than 100 women who were interviewed in a rural-based shelter described physical, social and geographical isolation, as well as limited access to transportation and communication resources.
In addition, Rhodes said it is not uncommon for those living in the rural areas to 'live several miles from the nearest paved road' and '100 miles from the nearest shelter.'
'The biggest issue that we run into is how to reach people and get services to them,' said Nadia Doubiany, a client advocacy services coordinator for the Domestic Violence Intervention Program, which oversees eight counties in southeast Iowa. 'We may have advocates in each county, but each county is a huge service area.'
'Transportation is the biggest obstacle,' said Ben Brustkern, executive director at the Cedar Valley Friends of the Family, a victim-advocacy organization that covers a 20-county area in Eastern and Northeastern Iowa. 'And I wouldn't doubt that distance and that lack of transportation keeps a lot of victims from even calling for help.'
To reach those people, Brustkern said organizations will need to focus their efforts on building bigger volunteer pools that are willing to not only deliver mobile services but offer transportation to those without access.
Over the past decade, funding cuts to human services, such as advocacy programs for victims of domestic violence or sexual assault, have forced a consolidation of resources.
When I was young, my mom got beat up by her boyfriend all the time. It went on for years and happened pretty much every time I was there.
- Jason Feldmann
Jones County Sheriff's Deputy
In 2012, Iowa Attorney General Tom Miller divided Iowa into six service regions. Within each area, the state would fund regional emergency shelter programs and comprehensive domestic violence programs and sexual assault programs.
The regional plan went into effect in 2015 and also advocated a shift in the way services were delivered — moving away from the use of emergency shelters and veering toward a mobile outreach model where services are offered in the field.
'In general, each of the programs in each of the six regions are covering areas that range in size from six to 20 counties,' said Adam Stark, director of member services for the Iowa Coalition Against Domestic Violence.
Many of the programs, he said, have outreach or satellite offices throughout their regions, but often do not have enough advocates or resources to cover the entire area.
'The idea of the mobile advocacy model was to meet people where they are and to extend the reach of these programs into the rural communities,' Stark said. 'But more advocates are necessary to cover each service region and reach into those rural towns.'
He added that victims who live in remote areas face added barriers of distance, isolation and the possible lack of transportation as well as the effects of poverty, which can make accessing resources difficult, if not impossible.
'It's the same issues we're seeing with everything else,' he said. 'But with domestic violence, the lack of affordable housing, the lack of transportation, the lack of mental health care and substance abuse treatment, the lack of affordable child care, the lack of advocates — all of these things are necessary to ensure we are meeting a person's basic needs and helping them regain their footing.'
And though some organizations, such as the Family Crisis Center in Sioux Center, which offers domestic violence services to a 17-county area in northwest Iowa, say they are in good shape when it comes serving their clients, they acknowledge more still needs to be done.
'For our clients, accessibility to our program is there consistently throughout all of our counties because of our mobile advocacy,' said Jessica Rohrs, chief operating officer at Family Crisis Center. 'We have the staff to make sure that our response time is within an hour anywhere in our service area. That said, there is always more work to do, and there are always more people to reach and always more victims and survivors to connect with.'
In her study, Luther College's Rhodes advocated a coordinated community response to domestic violence that includes creating a 'coherent philosophical approach that emphasizes the safety of victims,' standardizing practices among domestic violence response teams, the consistent exchange of information among the various entities and agencies that respond to and address domestic violence, sanctions for the offenders and the allotment of resources to meet the needs of victims and children.
'It's really about addressing people's basic needs,' said Stark, of the Iowa Coalition Against Domestic Violence. 'People need money for housing, they need money for child care, and economic abuse is such a huge piece of domestic violence. So we can say that we want to help people feel safe, and we can do all the safety planning in the world, but if they have nowhere to go, or no home or no income, how is that person going to feel safe from violence if their basic needs are not being met?'
Stark said in looking at the most vulnerable communities and working to comprehensively address their needs, that success would bleed into all communities.
'If we focus our energy on helping people with the most barriers, if we figure out how to help them and achieve that, then we can change it for everyone else,' he said. 'Everyone else gets their needs met if we can figure out how to lift up the person who needs the most help.'
But that can't be done without resources, he said.
'A lot of time, I find myself saying I don't know what to do next,' Stark added.
'There isn't enough to go around, and I don't think that is going to change any time soon. All of these programs are doing the best they can with what they have, but without real investment into these programs and without really delving into and addressing the root problems, we're essentially putting a Band-Aid on it and hoping it sticks.'
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Where to call in Iowa
Adel
Crisis Intervention and Advocacy Center
Office: 515-993-4095
Domestic Violence Crisis Line: 800-400-4884
Sexual Assault Crisis Line: 800-550-0004
Website: https://surpportingsurvivors.org
Counties served: Adams, Adair, Clarke, Dallas, Decatur, Guthrie, Madison, Ringgold, Taylor and Union Counties
Services: Domestic abuse, sexual abuse, transitional housing
Ames
ACCESS, or Assault Care Center Extending Shelter and Support
Office: 515-292-0500
Crisis Line: 888-983-2533
Website: assaultcarecenter.org
Counties served: Boone, Green, Marshall, Story, Tama
Services: Domestic abuse, sexual abuse, transitional housing
Cedar Rapids
Waypoint
Office: 319-365-1458
Crisis Line: 800-208-0388
Website: waypointservices.org
Counties served: Black Hawk, Benton, Buchanan, Delaware, Dubuque, Jones and Linn
Services: Domestic abuse
Deaf Iowans Against Abuse, or DIAA
V\VP: 319-531-7719
Crisis Hotline: V\VP: 319-531-7719
Text ONLY: 515-661-4015
Email: HELP@DIAAIowa.org
Website: DIAAIowa.org
Counties served: All 99
Services: Offers services for the hearing-impaired and deaf-blind for domestic abuse, sexual abuse and other violent crimes
Council Bluffs
Catholic Charities Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault Program
Office: 712-256-2059
Crisis Line: 888-612-0266 or 888-612-0266
Website: catholiccharitiesdm.org
Counties served: Audubon, Cass, Fremont, Harrison, Mills, Montgomery, Page, Pottawattamie and Shelby
Services: Domestic abuse, sexual abuse, emergency shelter
Davenport
SafePath Survivor Resources
Office: 563-468-2310
Crisis Line in Iowa: 866-921-3354
Crisis Line in Illinois: 309-797-1777
Website: famres.org
Counties served: Clinton, Jackson, Louisa, Muscatine, and Scott
Services: Domestic abuse, sexual abuse, emergency shelter, human trafficking
Decorah
Helping Services-Domestic Abuse Resources Center
Office: 563-387-1720
Crisis Line: 800-383-2988
Website: helpingservices.org
Counties served: Allamakee, Bremer, Chickasaw, Clayton, Fayette, Howard, Winneshiek
Services: Domestic abuse
Des Moines
Children and Families of Iowa-Domestic Violence Services
Office: 515-243-6147
Crisis Line: 800-942-0333
Website: cfiowa.org
Counties served: Polk, Warren
Services: Domestic abuse, emergency shelter
LUNA, or Latinas Unidas Por Un Nuevo Amanecer
Office: 515-271-5060
Crisis Line: 866-256-7668
Website: lunaiowa.org
Counties served: All 99
Services: Sexual assault and domestic violence services for Iowa's Latino population
Monsoon Asian and Pacific Islanders in Solidarity
Office: 515-288-0881
Crisis Line: 866-881-4641
Website: monsooniowa.org
Counties served: All 99
Services: Domestic abuse and sexual abuse services for Asian/Pacific Islander communities in Iowa
Nisaa African Family Services
Office: 515-255-5430
Website: nisaa-afs.org
Services: Domestic abuse and sexual abuse services for African immigrant and refugee communities
Fort Dodge
Domestic/Sexual Assault Outreach Center
Office: 515-955-2273
Crisis Line: 888-356-5006
Counties served: Boone, Butler, Cerro Gordo, Franklinn, Floyd, Greene, Grundy, Hamilton Hancock, Hardin, Humboldt, Kossuth, Marshall, Mitchell, Story, Tama, Webster, Winnebago, Worth and Wright
Services: Domestic violence, sexual assault, emergency shelter
Iowa City
Domestic Violence Intervention Program
Office: 319-351-1042
Crisis Line: 800-373-1043
Website: dvipiowa.org
Counties served: Cedar, Des Moines, Henry, Iowa, Johnson, Lee, Van Buren, Washington
Services: Domestic abuse, emergency shelter
Mason City
Crisis Intervention Service
Office: 641-424-9071
Crisis Line: 800-479-9071
Website: cishelps.org
Counties served: Butler, Cerro Gordo, Floyd, Franklin, Grundy, Hamilton, Hancock, Hardin, Humboldt, Kossuth, Mitchell, Webster, Winnebago, Worth, Wright
Services: Domestic Abuse, Sexual Abuse
Ottumwa
Crisis Center and Women's Shelter
Office: 641-683-1750
Crisis Line: 800-464-8340
Website: ottumwacrisiscenter.org
Counties served: Appanoose, Davis, Jasper, Jefferson, Keokuk, Lucas, Mahaska, Marion, Monroe, Poweshiek, Wapello, Wayne
Services: Domestic abuse
Sioux City
Council on Sexual Assault and Domestic Violence
Office: 712-277-0131
Crisis Line: 800-982-7233
Website: safefromabuse.com
Counties served: Plymouth and Woodbury counties in Iowa; Dakota and Thurston counties in Nebraska; Union County in South Dakota
Services: Domestic abuse, emergency shelter
Sioux Center
Family Crisis Center
Office: 712-722-4483
Crisis Line: 800-382-5603
Website: familycrisiscenters.org
Counties served: Buena Vista, Carroll, Calhoun, Cherokee, Clay, Crawford, Dickinson, Emmet, Ida, Lyon, Monona, O'Brien, Osceola, Palo Alto, Pocahontas, Sioux and Sac
Services: Domestic abuse, homicide
Tama
Meskwaki VIctim Services
Office: 641-484-4444
Crisis Line: 855-840-7362
Website: http: meskwaki.org/Family%20Services.html
Serves: Meskwaki Nation
Services: Domestic abuse, sexual abuse for the Meskwaki Nation
Waterloo
Amani Community Services
Office: 319 232-5660
Crisis Line: 888-983-2533
Website: amani-cs.org
Counties served: Black Hawk, Linn
Services: Domestic/sexual abuse outreach for the African-American community
Waverly
Cedar Valley Friends of the Family
Office: 319-352-1108
Crisis Line: 800-410-7233
Website: cvfriendsofthefamily.org
Counties served: Allamakee, Benton, Black Hawk, Bremer, Buchanan, Chickasaw, Clayton, Delaware, Dubuque, Fayette, Howard, Jones, Linn and Winneskiek
Services: Emergency shelter